Sunday, May 16, 2021
Foo Fighters - Chasing Birds (Official Video)
Thursday, May 13, 2021
Working from home and the least engaged employees
I read an article today in the New York Times about the CEO of WeWork who meant that employees who enjoyed working from home were those who were 'least engaged' in their jobs (WeWork’s CEO: ‘Least Engaged’ Employees Work From Home - The New York Times (nytimes.com) I had to laugh. I thought to myself--another dinosaur. Another entitled leader without social antenna or emotional intelligence. My advice to him is to join the 21st century before it leaves him behind.
The pandemic has shown us all how it is possible to keep on working productively and effectively while working from home full-time (or mostly full-time). Those of us who have administrative jobs have not experienced major changes in how we do our work. The greatest challenge I've faced during the past year has been getting my hospital's VPN to work at home; my company had to work that one out. It took some time, but they did. I need to have access to work emails from home and it has to happen via a private network. Does it always work? No. But 90% of the time it does. So I won't complain. When it doesn't work, I find another task to occupy me. The days go by, and work gets done.
I'm an older worker without children to care for. Many of the younger couples in my neighborhood who are new parents have enjoyed working from home this past year, for good reasons. They have been able to spend each waking day with their infant/toddler, and I've watched them take turns caring for their children. The fathers are outdoors pushing the baby carriages while the mothers are at home working. Or vice versa. They are relaxed and their babies are relaxed. Of course, we are talking about parents with one child each. Families with several children each may not experience the same amount of relaxation, especially if the children are of school age and were stuck at home during the last year. I've read articles about the parents who have used a lot of time on home schooling and the challenges involved in trying to work from home and home-school children. It can't be easy. As always, I would guess that much of the work falls to the women in the family, who do all of the above plus clean and run the house. So the WeWork CEO is most likely referring to mothers when he says that those who enjoy working from home are the least engaged. As I said, he lacks social antenna, because if he had them, he'd understand that maybe these women appreciate the extra time gained not spent commuting to and from work. Perhaps they appreciate being able to use that extra time on their actual jobs when they are at home, despite all of the other things they are asked to do. As always, it's a man commenting on these issues. I'm really so tired of hearing what men have to think. Why not ask women CEOs? Oh, I forgot. Men still outnumber women when it comes to occupying those coveted CEO positions (Women Business Leaders: Global Statistics (catalyst.org). Why doesn't that surprise me?
I've worked in academia my entire career (dominated for the most part by men at the higher levels). All I've seen are men who have prioritized their careers at the expense of family and friends, at the expense of hobbies and other interests. Many of them (now old) are divorced and alone. They face old age and sickness alone. Many of them were unfaithful to their wives along the way. Many of them were never there to help raise their children. It seems strange to me that society would expect men and women to behave this way and then expect them to have a decent family life. My brother hit that wall when he had children; suddenly sitting in his office until late hours did not appeal to him, and it caused him trouble with his bosses who thought he should not be leaving at 5 pm every day. But he wanted to be with his children, and it cost him one job. But if you get your work done within regular work hours, why shouldn't you be allowed to leave at 5 pm without that being a negative thing? It's because we Americans were raised to think that 60-hour work weeks somehow make you important, invaluable to your company. And for some decades, it probably was that way. But no longer. Companies are no longer loyal to employees who dedicate every waking hour of their lives to their companies. Younger people want a life, and thank God for that. They enjoy their work, but they also enjoy their family lives and friends. And most younger women would not tolerate being married to a man who worked the way men in my father's generation worked, or even men in my former boss's generation (close to 80 years old now). They gave their all to their jobs, but for the life of me I cannot see what they got back that was so much more important than their families and friends.
So working from home gets two thumbs up from me. Being able to be flexible about when one needs to focus on work, or on family, or on home life and friends, is worth gold. If the WeWork CEO has a problem with that, it's his problem. Society is changing rapidly, and it has passed him by. Good riddance to these types of men.
Monday, May 10, 2021
The demise of workplace loyalty
Modern leadership courses emphasize many things, but loyalty to one’s workplace is not one of them. Loyalty (my definition of it) is considered to be old-fashioned; what’s important is being able to navigate the many and continual changes that come your way as an employee. Don't become too attached to anything because it could all change tomorrow. Don't become too attached or loyal to a project, a job, or a good leader. Be ready to let go of all of it immediately, because you may very well be asked to do that. Be ready for change at all times. That is the modern workplace mantra.
As long as employees do not resist the many changes that are foisted upon them, they are considered 'loyal' in the way that management likes. That is the modern definition of workplace loyalty. If management decides that an employee should move to a new location and start anew, it is expected that the employee do that without questioning the wisdom of their decision. Modern workplace loyalty is doing and saying what workplace leadership wants you to do and say; it is not doing and saying what is often the truth and what is often best for oneself and one’s workplace, because the truth is generally not appreciated, or rather, management does not often wish to be reminded of it, especially when it comes into conflict with the plans and strategies that management wishes to implement. Most managers are not interested in hearing your thoughts/opinions about their decisions, whether they are about your job or the workplace at large. If management decides that a merger is the best course of action for a workplace, they effectuate it even if most employees are opposed to it. That has been my experience in huge public sector workplaces. Employees must simply find a way to deal with the outcome, even if it is an obvious failure on many levels. If management decides that personnel budget cuts are the way to reduce operating costs, they effectuate them, despite the protests and complaints by the employees affected directly by them. If management decides that the remaining employees are to do the work of the employees who have been let go, they will put a spin on that decision and foist it upon the remaining employees. If productivity decreases as a result of this decision, management will not allow employees to remind them that this is a direct result of the budget cuts. Management refuses to face the truth--that it is not possible for two people to do the work of five. Modern workplaces are all about saving money ad nauseam but making sure that top leaders get the generous salaries they feel they deserve. And so on.
Leaders would rather not have to deal with such a tiresome virtue as loyalty, with employees who want what's best for their workplace, who like their workplace, their colleagues, the camaraderie, the shared history, and the interesting projects. It's difficult for most employees to live up to the version of modern worker that most modern workplaces want. The same idea applies when discussions of open office landscapes come up; management will push through that idea despite protests from employees who know from the start how the noise and chaos of open landscapes will affect their productivity. They are not listened to. They are expected to be sheep; just follow management's lead and accept the consequences. If the decision proves to be a huge mistake, they'll find a way to gloss over it so that it is never defined as a mistake. Ergo, it will not be possible to learn from mistakes because there aren't any.
I don’t understand
workplaces that refuse to listen to the good advice and ideas of their
employees who have worked there for many years, who know the history of their
workplaces and the risks involved in going down a particular path. It’s almost
as though the longer you work in one place, the more risk you pose to the
implementation of the plans and strategies of management, because they know
that long-term employees perhaps cannot adapt or might not want to adapt as
readily as short-term employees. They are too loyal to the old way of doing
things. I can understand this from management’s point of view, but it’s
disconcerting to realize that history, experience, and general knowledge are
not valued in the same way as they once were. It’s disconcerting to watch a
workplace under new management make the same mistakes as were made ten years
ago under an older management. It’s disconcerting to know that they did this
because they did not want to listen to the long-term employees. It's disconcerting to watch how long-term employees are pushed aside or frozen out in favor of the younger ones who are more malleable. Eventually, the
longer you stay in one workplace out of a misguided sense of loyalty, the less
valuable you are to that workplace. That is the definition of a modern
workplace. It is no wonder that younger people are less ‘loyal’ in the
old-fashioned sense of the word. Why hang around when your ideas and advice are
not valued? Many of them shift jobs without compunction after five or seven years.
I’ve come to see that as a good thing. I started my career with that attitude,
because I felt that at the seven-year mark, one perhaps needed a change of
venue. It was important to move on in order to grow and develop. But that was a different era when loyalty between employer and employee was a two-way street. Employers may not have wanted you to leave, and they did their utmost to keep you. That is no longer true. But then I moved
to a small country with considerably less career opportunities, and suddenly I
had to face the reality that it wouldn’t be easy to shift jobs the way I might
have been able to do had I stayed in my own country. So I stayed in one place,
in one department, at one hospital. I pursued a doctoral degree, did a postdoc,
and became a scientist, all at the same workplace. Many of my colleagues have
been the same people for the past thirty years. I grew to like that for the
most part—the sense of familiarity and shared history. Thirty
years went by. But during the past ten to fifteen years, much has changed, perhaps not unexpectedly. The sense of
familiarity and shared history are gone. They have been replaced by a feeling
that the sands are constantly shifting under one’s feet. Employees come and go.
Decisions are made, work groups established to implement them, and then they
are abandoned for reasons that are unclear. Few people seem to complain about
the waste of time and effort involved in this type of decision-making, not to
mention the huge costs involved. Everything has become very fluid and relative. It
often feels like the foundations are no longer strong, or that they are now
being built upon shifting sands rather than on solid ground. Many long-term employees have adapted to multiple and continuous changes, but it took time, probably much longer than management preferred. The
result however is that long-term employees stand alone. They feel alone and perhaps abandoned. They feel devalued and useless to some extent. The sense of shared history is gone. The sense of pulling together for a real and important goal is gone. It’s
a strange feeling. I haven’t decided yet whether I like it, but that’s not what’s
important. What’s important is that management likes this way of doing things.
Sunday, May 9, 2021
Quotes about moving forward and the courage to do so
- Life moves on and so should we. Spencer Johnson
- Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down. Roy T. Bennett
- Let go of something old that no longer serves you to make room for something new. Roy T. Bennett
- One of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of what you can’t change. Unknown
- God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. Reinhold Niebuhr
- You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could’ve, would’ve happened… or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move on. Tupac Shakur
- Inhale the future, exhale the past. Unknown
- Nothing in the universe can stop you from letting go and starting over. Guy Finley
- Close some doors. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere. Unknown
- The only thing a person can ever really do is keep moving forward. Take that big leap forward without hesitation, without once looking back. Simply forget the past and forge toward the future. Alyson Noel
- When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need. Tao Te Ching
- You will evolve past certain people. Let yourself. Mandy Hale
- Let go of certainty. The opposite isn’t uncertainty. It’s openness, curiosity and a willingness to embrace paradox, rather than choose up sides. The ultimate challenge is to accept ourselves exactly as we are, but never stop trying to learn and grow. Tony Schwartz
- When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us. Alexander Graham Bell
- Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties. Erich Fromm
- It is only through labor and painful effort, by grim energy and resolute courage, that we move on to better things. Theodore Roosevelt
- Courage is the power to let go of the familiar. Raymond Lindquist
- You don’t need strength to let go of something. What you really need is understanding. Guy Finley
Wednesday, April 28, 2021
Women and self-confidence
Monday, April 26, 2021
A time for change
There is a time for everything under the heavens, as Ecclesiastes 3:1 says. The entire verse is as follows:
- There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens
- a time to be born and a time to die,
- a time to plant and a time to uproot,
- a time to kill and a time to heal,
- a time to tear down and a time to build,
- a time to weep and a time to laugh,
- a time to mourn and a time to dance,
- a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
- a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
- a time to search and a time to give up,
- a time to keep and a time to throw away,
- a time to tear and a time to mend,
- a time to be silent and a time to speak,
- a time to love and a time to hate,
- a time for war and a time for peace.
Thursday, April 22, 2021
My poetry collections
I've been writing poetry for many years, since I was fourteen years old. During the past ten years or so, I've been able to publish most of what I've written over the years as different poetry collections, which I've listed here:
- Cemetery Road, published in 2019
- Quantum Bloom, published in 2015
- One Hundred Haikus for Modern Workplaces, published in 2014
- Remnants of the Spirit World, published in 2014
- Parables and Voices, published in 2011
Wednesday, April 21, 2021
Street life-Randy Crawford
Brothers Johnson - Stomp! (Official Video) (1980)
Brothers Johnson - Strawberry Letter #23 (1977)
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
One of my favorite films and soundtracks--Jackie Brown
I watched the film Jackie Brown again last night. I don't know how many times I've seen it, but it's one of those films worth seeing again, just to appreciate the acting (all of the actors and actresses are superb in their roles) and to fill in the small plot gaps that one may have missed the previous times. It also has a great soundtrack; I love listening to the songs--many are from my growing-up and young adult years. If you want to just get away for a few hours and enjoy watching (and listening) to a film, I recommend Jackie Brown. It came out in 1997, but I don't remember seeing it for the first time then. I think I may have avoided it because Quentin Tarantino was the director, and his films are so eclectic and violent that I was unsure how this film would be. It is violent, but not any more so than many other films in this genre. I've seen worse violence, to put it that way.
Pam Grier is stewardess Jackie Brown--cool, composed, smart and calculating. I can't see anyone else playing this role; she is just so good in it. Jackie Brown is no fool, and has no qualms about setting up illegal weapons dealer Ordell Robbie (played by Samuel L. Jackson) in order to get him out of the way and to keep his money while playing the FBI as well. After all, Ordell doesn't care whether she goes to prison for smuggling his money into the USA from Mexico, it's about survival of the fittest. Ordell is also smart, but not as smart as Jackie. Robert Forster is also so good as Max Cherry, the bail bondsman who falls in love with Jackie Brown at first sight and decides to help her. His basic decency prevents him from taking any of the money she will possibly end up stealing, except for the regular fee he charges all those who request his services.
Quentin Tarantino apparently revived the careers of both Pam Grier and Robert Forster by choosing them to be in this film. He had good instincts in choosing them, because they are excellent actors and perfect for their roles. Samuel L. Jackson is also quite good, Robert De Niro, Michael Keaton, and Bridget Fonda likewise. A very good movie ensemble.
As I mentioned, the soundtrack is also a big part of the movie, with the following songs:
- "Across 110th Street" by Bobby Womack and Peace
- "Strawberry Letter 23" by The Brothers Johnson
- "Who Is He (And What Is He to You)?" by Bill Withers
- "Tennessee Stud" by Johnny Cash
- "Natural High" by Bloodstone
- "Long Time Woman" by Pam Grier
- "(Holy Matrimony) Letter to the Firm" by Foxy Brown
- "Street Life" performed by Randy Crawford
- "Didn't I (Blow Your Mind This Time)" by The Delfonics
- "Midnight Confessions" by The Grass Roots
- "Inside My Love" by Minnie Riperton
- "The Lions and the Cucumber" by The Vampire Sound Incorporation
- "Monte Carlo Nights" by Elliot Easton's Tiki Gods
Sunday, April 11, 2021
An ethics lesson in the midst of a pandemic
Here is a hypothetical situation concerning getting the vaccine against the coronavirus. A hospital department contacts its employees late on a Saturday evening to let them know that if they want, they can get the vaccine that evening. The only thing the department employees are told is that the vaccine expiration date is the following day--Sunday, so the vaccines must be used up quickly. Around two hundred employees show up to take the vaccine; all are wearing masks, and all are trying to practice social distancing while waiting in line. One of the organizers walks around counting heads and telling the employees in a loud voice to remember to stand six feet apart. It is only when each employee is sitting with the vaccinator that he or she is told that the vaccines had not been stored at the right temperature and that there is a question as to whether or not they will be effective at producing antibodies against the virus. In other words, showing up for the vaccine dose may mean that the trip was a wasted effort. The vaccine may work, which would be good news, and it may not work, which is not good news. The latter means waiting for a new first vaccine dose; for some employees, this is a rather bitter pill to swallow because some of them lose their place in the regular vaccine line sponsored by the city municipality where they live or the hospital where they work. The hospital department that arranged the vaccinations has apparently not contacted upper hospital management about their vaccination program arranged on the fly; in other words, the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing. The hospital department decides to arrange for antibody testing starting around seventeen days after the vaccination date; it will call in each employee for a blood test and test for the production of antibodies against the virus. This could take some time--both the blood collections and the antibody tests--so it is uncertain when the results of the tests will be available. In the meantime, older employees (circa sixty-five to seventy-five years old) are being called in by the city municipality to get vaccinated. The municipality has no idea that these employees have been vaccinated with a possible ineffective vaccine dose. The employees are stressed because they are unsure of what to do--wait for the department to arrange everything, or take the new vaccine dose offered them. If they don't take the latter offer, they may lose their place in line and may have to wait another month or more to get a functioning vaccine. During a pandemic, the stress factor is high and nerves are frayed. It would be best to give employees the whole story, right from the start.
If you were one of these employees and were a student in an ethics class, you might broach the following questions for discussion:
- Why weren't the employees told the whole story--that the vaccines might be ineffective?
- Why were only some few leaders told the whole story, and why didn't they inform all employees?
- Why wasn't there a general announcement that evening before vaccinations started that the vaccines might be ineffective?
- Are the results of these vaccinations going to be used in a research article of some sort? If so, all employees must consent to the use of their data in an eventual article. Some may choose not to.
- Even if the information gained from such a project is useful and informative, which it actually is, it would have been better to have fully informed employees about what they were signing up for.
- Does this type of behavior help to build employee trust in management?
This is as it turns out, a true story. While all the employees will eventually get vaccinated with a second dose if the vaccine they received proves effective, and there is good reason to believe that it is effective, it would have been far better to have fully informed all employees. Some leaders will say 'what's the big deal? It all worked out well. Why are employees dissatisfied?' The answer is that they're happy to have been vaccinated, but dissatisfied with the way it went down. It's a learning experience for all leaders. The next time, they should make sure that all employees are fully-informed. That way, it's win-win for everyone.